Xian – Honor Thy Father

It was early Sunday morning when I heard my wife gasp in the
next room. She walked in, her hands to her mouth, obviously quite shaken, and then
I knew. She didn’t have to say anything.

With 3 million people, Xian is a popular stopover on the Shanghai to Beijing
route, and it certainly has sites to see beyond the world famous warriors. Littered
with archeological sites, new ones are discovered and developed every year. We
stayed seven days, and were delightfully entertained, despite the trying and
sobering situation that developed during our visit.

Xian will always be a bittersweet destination on our trip,
the place where we received the news that our father had passed away quite
unexpectedly. You never really know when your last talk with a loved one will
occur, far easier to take for granted that many more will follow, but nothing
is so guaranteed. Delight in every conversation as the precious gift that it is,
and appreciate every word and moment as though it may be the last. Carry on all
aspects of your life to make your parents proud, remember to hug your loved
ones whenever possible, and respect your mother. Most of all, honor thy father.
Rest in peace Pops…